COMBAT FEAR: AN ENDOPARASITE
Fear is a psychological illusion about losing, be it thing, person, achievement, money or what! On one hand, it is important to posses some amount of it. Whereas, other side of coin says it is the worst thing that gradually eats up the confidence of flourishing mind. It is never inherited, always provocative by past. Life teaches us lessons. Sometimes it is expected and other times it is all the way surprise, be good or bad.
Nothing is permanent in life and neither life itself. We are here to cross the long journey from birth to death. Handling things in between is life. Bad things happen. Some pass on with lesson and others just lessen our lives. That is the time when we develop fear of repeat telecast. Every step thereafter is put on with great caution. Being strong for our loved ones in tough times, does not mean that we are really stout.
Losing favorite toy is not less than experiencing torment for a kid. It is not only a toy but his companion.
Ask about losing a loved one, who used to see their lives in them. Person lost, is something u can never get back the same. Or at times, you will never see them again. They are gone, forever! Heart whose dreams are shattered, words were left unspoken and ample questions unanswered. Why is life that harsh? Life full of complains and stress but without any answer.
Why not the fear will develop then? But, remember this is not the end. Look back upon the memories, cherish them. Glorify with your endless love and affection. Someone is still there with you, in your heart. So lively and spirited.
Ask a man, who toiled his sweat and blood to build up his life. Just a small mistake or a blow and things are turned upside down. What can be more distressing than to see his own family crying for small deeds? The family who trusts him, still wholly depends on him. Condition becomes disastrous when not just luxuries but basic amenities are also lost. Meeting the two ends of the day is not less than fighting war. Worst of all is losing your home !!
Home, that is always your world, close to the heart, a prized possession. Nomatter, how small or big it is. Sitting alone then, away from your place, sometime an urge will always be there to know how is it now? Is anyone looking like it as we use to ? Is someone nurturing it the same way ? Who will now be playing in the yard where I use to be the king. Small fights, small plays but big memories! It is like leaving behind an important part of your body. Although, it can be build again but shadows are never gone.
Days turn into nights and then nightmares. Everything seems to come to an end, hopeless! No one ever dreams about bad times and what when we have to face it. Just a thought, give goosebumps. Unfortunately, this is life. Many broken hearts think of jumping over other side of life, that is death!! An unnatural death that will be because of shear stress. Fortunately, there will be brave soul who will fight with this time, gather all of their strength to give a new start.
This new start is the crucial step. As it not only lacks resources but is also deficient in courage, faith, sureness. Every step is bound with confusion, hesitancy, burden to fulfill dreams and to rejuvenate happiness. Ample of mouths are ready for criticisms but barely any hand to help, except that of our loved ones. Life is dragging back and pushing ahead as well. Each passing day is like climbing a mountain barefoot without support. But with passage of time, nonstop hard work and blessings, life starts blooming into colors.
Worries should not be allowed to peep in. If you have solution to problem, then why to worry? If u know that there is no way to resolve it, then also no point of worrying. Give smile to your problems; think about them with relaxed mind. A ray of hope with an answer is always there.
With advent of life, there comes a time when uphill battling soul needs support, hand to hold, shoulder to rest. That enduring soul has a feeble heart. A heart that is timid.
What says this feeble heart?
“I live for everyone, in fine feather for wiping your tears. But when
it comes to me, I am actually a loner, deep inside. Need a lap that
shelter me, assures me that all will be fine and nothing is wrong.
Life is great and you are doing tremendous job. I need little
appreciation to boost my morale not sympathy.”
But it is always difficult to combat that fear of losing life yet again. No matter, how the time is ‘This shall too pass.’ Live it before it passes off. Break the coconut cover. Don’t hide inside snail shell, come out when u have a chance. Live for yourself then. Speak out your heart truly; get all the well deserved love. Give wings to your dreams, feel light. Share your sorrows; get your tears wiped off. Give yourself in some hands, hands that will pamper u like a baby. Love you through the core. Destiny is decided but living with fear of bad luck will ruin your present. Live a bigger life. Add life to your days, enjoy the change!! Slice your responsibilities; lessen the burden of your shoulders. Let your heart know that life is really beautiful and livable. Welcome it with open arms, give your time, donate a part of your life to create best ever memories. Live it with someone and for the one because somehow, “Loneliness is the ultimate poverty!”
Ignite your life, propel your dreams, kill the fear and live it !!
